I like to be in control. I'm not going deny it. I'm a big fan of creating plans, knowing what is going to happen, and when. The times that I have no control, knowledge, or plan? Well, that is just plain scary! It's anxiety producing.
There are so many areas of our lives that we pretend we have control over, but we don't. So why do we become anxious over something that we can't plan?
Love cannot be controlled.
Finding someone to love is easy. Finding someone to love, that loves you, and wants the same future? That can be challenging.
Even with all the coaching in the world, there will always be an element of fate involved when it comes to love. My greatest loves arrived without me looking, or even being aware. They showed up because I was open, happy, and relaxed. Not because I followed rules, or had a formula.
It's time we all let it go. Create a space for love in your life. Be open. Do things that make the possibility of finding love more likely. Do the work on yourself.
Just don't try to control love. When it starts to feel like work, it's time to step back and just be.
Be love and find love. Let it all go, and believe that you are exactly where you are meant to be. There is a greater plan out there than you could ever imagine.