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Unlock Love - Feel your way out.

Throughout my career as a coach, I have had many transformations. When I began my practice, it was all about advice. What could I tell someone to do to make their lives better? What advice could I give that would lead them to the goals they desired? How could I direct them so that they avoided "mistakes"? It wasn't terrible. People made progress. But I was frustrated. What I realIzed for my clients and myself is that there is no one path that works for all. Like food, not every diet nourishes every body. Advice works for some people, some of the time. However, I found something that works for ALL people, ALL of the time! That was the revelation, and knowing that beyond a doubt...

All of the answers are within you.

Every single one.

It's the reason I have been pursuing a certification in hypnotherapy (and will begin incorporating it as a tool in my coaching). It's why my coaching focuses far less on practical advice than ways for you to look inside to find the answers that allow you to reach your goals.

Don't believe me? Feel it out.

Take a minute when you have a decision to make, or are wondering what path to take, and ask yourself. Get quiet. Ask the question. Be open, and listen. What feelings do you get when you ask yourself your question? When you feel that feeling, ask yourself why you feel that way? The more aware you are of how powerful and brilliant you are, the clearer the answers will be, and the less you will need me or anyone else to help you find out what you already know.

The answers are all within you. You just have to believe and listen.

Let it go.

I like to be in control. I'm not going deny it. I'm a big fan of creating plans, knowing what is going to happen, and when. The times that I have no control, knowledge, or plan? Well, that is just plain scary! It's anxiety producing.

There are so many areas of our lives that we pretend we have control over, but we don't. So why do we become anxious over something that we can't plan?

Love cannot be controlled.

Finding someone to love is easy. Finding someone to love, that loves you, and wants the same future? That can be challenging.

Even with all the coaching in the world, there will always be an element of fate involved when it comes to love. My greatest loves arrived without me looking, or even being aware. They showed up because I was open, happy, and relaxed. Not because I followed rules, or had a formula.

It's time we all let it go. Create a space for love in your life. Be open. Do things that make the possibility of finding love more likely. Do the work on yourself.

Just don't try to control love. When it starts to feel like work, it's time to step back and just be.

Be love and find love. Let it all go, and believe that you are exactly where you are meant to be. There is a greater plan out there than you could ever imagine.