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He Didn't Call, Now What?!

I met someone! A man for the first time in a long time that I thought was "babysitter worthy". A guy that showed me that there are great men in my backyard that have all the qualities that I'm looking for. Someone who is also looking for a relationship.

We had great conversation and chemistry over drinks and dinner, flirted, and daily text sessions in the days after.

And then nothing.

What?! Is this some cruel trick God? You dangle this ideal specimen in front of me and he doesn't immediately fall madly in love with me? That's just wrong!

So what do I do now?


I don't call him. I don't write him. I don't chase. I move on having learned something amazing, THERE ARE BABYSITTER WORTHY MEN IN MY BACKYARD! That's huge.

When a man his interested, he pursues. He calls. He texts. He makes plans to see you.

When a man is not interested, he doesn't.

Simple as that.

Of course the reasons as to why he isn't interested are nuanced. This guy might not want to be involved with someone with kids. Maybe he has ex issues. Maybe he just can't see himself with me. The bottom line doesn't matter.

It is SO exciting when we meet someone we click with. It is SO disappointing when it doesn't work. That disappointment must be short lived though.

There is nothing invested in this "relationship" but HOPE.

So take that hope, and continue to be hopeful that the next person you meet and click with IS interested.

Why Are You Thankful?

It's Thanksgiving week here in the US. As we all get ready to stuff ourselves silly on turkey, stuffing, cranberry sauce, and pumpkin pie (mmmmm....pumpkin pie), I am so grateful for the ever present and ever necessary reminder to give thanks. In our lives it is easy to run on autopilot, to focus on the things we want to change as opposed to the things that should stay the same, and to suffer from a case of the "only ifs". This week, to me, is about slowing down. It's about taking time to smell the roses (or pumpkin pie) and to count of all of my blessings. It's about taking account of every aspect of my life that makes me happy, and appreciating all of the massive gifts I have been given. Do I still want to do more, be more, and achieve more? Sure. However, I won't appreciate where I am going if I don't feel thankful for where I am. What are you thankful for?

Who are you thankful for?

What can you do this week to slow down and take note of all the amazingness in your life?

I would love to encourage you to start a gratitude journal. Even if it is just for the week, spend 5 minutes every morning to make a list of the things you are thankful for. It could be as simple as a great cup of coffee, or as deep as your most meaningful relationship. Writing down what you are grateful for gives those feelings power. Keeping track of the things you are thankful for on a regular basis can help to give you perspective when you feel that your life would be amazing....only if ________.

Have an awesome Thanksgiving. Eat up that pumpkin pie, and give thanks.