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There's no one way.
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In the past few weeks, I've worked with those that believed there was one way to meditate, one way to date, one way to do business, one way to *LIVE*.

Nope. Not even close. How could there be only one option when we are so intricately different?We all have different messages and modalities that resonate. Some may read my messages and have an "ah ha!" moment, while others may be unmoved. It's cool, it's all part of the reason why humanity is so magical.

I have many flaws, but the one attribute I have that I am extremely proud of is that I follow the path that I pave.

I work in a way that feels good to me. I meditate and workout the way that resonates (which means often skipping the workout - shhhh, our little secret...). I love the way I want to love.

Are they perfect methods? Definitely not for the entirety of the population, but they are perfect for me.

The next time you think "I must be doing this wrong", pause and ask yourself "Am I doing this the way I think I am supposed to or the way that feels good to me?" Only you can determine what works, and trust me, you'll know it when you find it because it will be easy,

Sending you love.

I am not enough.

I am not attractive enough. I am not smart enough.

I am not successful enough.

I am not thin enough.

I am not enough.

How many times a day do these words cross your mind? Why do you let someone else define your worth? How hard on yourself are you for not being "perfect'?

I'll let you in on something. There is no such thing as perfect.

No perfect life. No perfect face. No perfect body. No perfect mate.

There is life. It's messy. It's dirty. It's confusing. And it is beautiful. Just as you are beautiful.

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." - Eleanor Roosevelt

Every single one of you have abilities, talents, and attributes that are enviable to someone else. So why think that you are in any less than enough? Why let someone else, media, or society create that doubt?

We all have our moments. My friend once said to me, "I need to know your flaws! You seem so....perfect!" I laughed. Hard. I'm far from it. If you've been reading my messages for a while, you are fully aware of that. I have my moments when I don't feel enough. I spent my childhood never feeling enough. I still battle an internal dialogue at times. So why on the outside do I appear ok? Because I took back my power. I realized that someone else's opinion of me is none of my business. I realized that I like, no, LOVE, me. I realized that for all my imperfections, I'm still pretty damn awesome. Cocky? No. Confident? Yes. Perfect? Not a chance.

The next time you feel less than, remember, YOU ARE ENOUGH.