Posts tagged advice
Unlock Love - Feel your way out.
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Throughout my career as a coach, I have had many transformations. When I began my practice, it was all about advice. What could I tell someone to do to make their lives better? What advice could I give that would lead them to the goals they desired? How could I direct them so that they avoided "mistakes"? It wasn't terrible. People made progress. But I was frustrated. What I realIzed for my clients and myself is that there is no one path that works for all. Like food, not every diet nourishes every body. Advice works for some people, some of the time. However, I found something that works for ALL people, ALL of the time! That was the revelation, and knowing that beyond a doubt...

All of the answers are within you.

Every single one.

It's the reason I have been pursuing a certification in hypnotherapy (and will begin incorporating it as a tool in my coaching). It's why my coaching focuses far less on practical advice than ways for you to look inside to find the answers that allow you to reach your goals.

Don't believe me? Feel it out.

Take a minute when you have a decision to make, or are wondering what path to take, and ask yourself. Get quiet. Ask the question. Be open, and listen. What feelings do you get when you ask yourself your question? When you feel that feeling, ask yourself why you feel that way? The more aware you are of how powerful and brilliant you are, the clearer the answers will be, and the less you will need me or anyone else to help you find out what you already know.

The answers are all within you. You just have to believe and listen.

Who you should really be listening to....
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Experts. Gurus. Coaches. There seems to be one for everything and everyone. Their advice often contradicts. The foundation of their expertise can be questionable. Anyone with a mouth and an opinion seems to be giving themselves some sort of title of importance these days. Including me. My legal background and education/regulation required me to do more than hang up a shingle. I sought certification as a coach, I've attended too many seminars and workshops to count, and I have an infinite search for knowledge. Does that mean I know everything? Not a chance. I'm always learning. So who should you listen to? Who should you turn to when you are looking for guidance or feel lost, confused, or frustrated?

The answer isn't me.

It's you.

Every one of us has an immense amount of intuition. My clients often tell me, "I KNOW this! I could do your job!" The truth is, yes, you could! I believe that every single person reading this has the answers within them. What to do, where to go, and who to love. You KNOW when there is a red flag that you breeze past in hopes that this time will be different. You KNOW that you need to break out of your comfort zone to make a change. You KNOW that you deserve more than crumbs.

Experts, gurus, coaches, me. We are only here to help you unearth that intuition, unblock your own walls that keep you from following what you already KNOW, and help along the way by sharing what has worked for others.

We aren't all-knowing. We aren't better than anyone else. We simply have found a way to help you realize that you knew the answers all along. You just needed to turn up the volume.