My hair that is. You see, for years I’ve had extensions. You know, that fake (well, actually it’s real, just not mine) hair that everyone on TV has? I got it a few years ago. My hair was always thinner than I wanted (why couldn’t my legs have that problem?!), and when I started doing TV regularly, I decided I might as well join my cohorts in enhancing what God didn’t give me.
I’m over them. Sure I think they were pretty, and made me feel more feminine and confident, but they also made me insecure at the same time. Having to tell my boyfriend to be careful of them, worrying that someone would see them if it was windy out. One day last week they just started to come undone, and I realized it was time to let them go.
I’m just fine the way I am. I don’t need extra hair to feel amazing. My hair doesn’t define me. It’s just an accessory. Don’t get me wrong, I am a proponent of doing what you need to do to feel good about yourself. Sometimes that’s permanent, and sometimes it’s temporary, like extensions. I needed them at the moment to feel confident on TV, but now I know all I need is within me. My knowledge (and hopefully my sense of humor) is why I’m there.
So I’m releasing a crutch, and it feels awesome. What’s your crutch? What are you using to boost your self esteem that may not truly be a part of you? Ever try going without it? Even temporarily? It’s pretty liberating.